But in a coercive enviroment any performed act is an act of submission because of the coercion, not the act itself. And, and, and if you're, I dunno, okay, if you blow a guy so he won't kill you, that's actually an act of control, isn't it? I mean, choice, compromise as a form of, or, or, or at least an attempt to-towards self-determination. Just 'cause all your choices are crappy doesn't mean you don't have a choice. Not submissive. ...or if you're using it as a bargaining tool! Not submissive. And if you're doing it right, I mean, you can slow down, you can speed up, you can make them beg you to finish them, you, uh, you, um. *slight blush* Okay, suddenly I'm really uncomfortable talking about this with my Dad's girlfriend.
We can change the subject then. I hadn't expected to get into a discussion of the....finer points of the act, myself. You're right about the control aspect, I suppose, and bargaining tools.
1. If you could change any one thing about yourself, would you and if so, what would it be? 2. What is the best thing about being a mutant? 3. How do you like being married? 4. Why do people say there is gold at the end of a rainbow? 5. Where is your favorite place and time to visit with all the jumping around you do?
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We can change the subject then. I hadn't expected to get into a discussion of the....finer points of the act, myself. You're right about the control aspect, I suppose, and bargaining tools.
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1. If you could change any one thing about yourself, would you and if so, what would it be?
2. What is the best thing about being a mutant?
3. How do you like being married?
4. Why do people say there is gold at the end of a rainbow?
5. Where is your favorite place and time to visit with all the jumping around you do?
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